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Is it your partner or you who’s controlling? They say you’re “controlling.” But they don’t see the chaos you grew up in. Control isn’t always about power. Most times, it’s about survival. Because your nervous system learned early: “If I don’t plan everything, something will go wrong.” So you double-check. You remind. You micromanage. Not because you want to lead — but because you’re scared no one else will. The healing isn’t in letting go of control overnight. It’s in learning how to feel safe w