Last Monday I appeared on 'Upfront with Katie Hannon' on RTE1. The discussion was about rules in certain churches regarding eulogies and personal touches during funerals. It was wonderful to be a part of a very important and emotive conversation. I think it was a respectful and constructive discussion. One question came up, however, which I don't think I answered very reflectively. So having thought about it during the week, here is a more nuanced response to the idea that an independent celebra