Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "In polyamory, the fear of abandonment can be especially heightened, whether it’s your partner forming a new connection, growing more deeply enmeshed with someone else, or even you choosing to open your relationship and wondering what that might mean for your sense of home and family. For many of us, that fear isn’t just about this moment; it’s somatic, living in the body from childhood experiences of being left, overlooked, or not chosen. Sometimes it’s deepened